To be read in the most entitled, angry, sexually frustrated and bitchiest* 30 y/o male voice that you could possibly imagine. You probably have the voice of someone particular in mind, but in case you don't, just think of someone whose arrogance pisses you the fuck off and mimic his voice as best as you … Continue reading What I wanted to say in place of the block button, eventually choosing the better option:
Tag: sex-positivity
and when sex becomes a betrayal of the self "To refuse to be conscious of what we are feeling at any time, however comfortable that might seem, is to deny a large part of the experience, and to allow ourselves to be reduced to the pornographic, the abused, and the absurd" Audre Lorde, Sister Outsider: … Continue reading The Power of the Erotic
Artwork courtesy of Maria Kelling aka Uncle Reezy https://www.facebook.com/unclereezyart/ There is a disconnect between the idea of sexual liberation and its actualization through “sex positivity” and college hookup culture. What does it mean to have liberating sex? I’ve been in feminist circles where we enthusiastically discuss the idea of sex positivity, which challenges the framing … Continue reading Sex Shame and Freedom: a critique of sex positivity